Mojo means self confidence; it is the basic belief of oneself in a situation. As a new grand mother there are many times when one’s self confidence gets tested. I basically think that I have confidence in my abilities to love and care for children, having been a mother of 4 of my own. However, young ones can test your patience and erode that self-assurance that you desperately need. As you get to know and understand the personalities of the children, you become more able to tackle lots of little situations confidently. These tips might help you to develop your Mojo.

• Believe in yourself and your ability to show love.
• Believe in small steps that enrich your role as grandmother.
• Allow for mistakes and do not beat yourself up.
• Rest in God’s care and pray for wisdom and understanding.
• Confidence develops from knowing the child, his interests and routines.
• Believe in remaining calm and engaging help if needed.
• Surround yourself with other positive role models. Laugh and cry.
• Ensure 100% effort.
• Will yourself to do things by taking little risks and stepping out of your comfort zone.
• Be grateful for small mercies that you learn from the children.